Long Distance Relationship
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This topic is of more interest today than perhaps ever before, even during the world wars.
With ongoing military presence in the middle east and other parts of the world, as well as numerous online dating sites, and necessary mobility for some to find work, global relationships might eventually become the ‘norm’.
Of course, couples who are in a relationship before distance becomes a factor have the advantage of already being established partners who know one another.
Provided they are in a committed relationship, their absence from one another will more easily be overcome with the knowledge that they will ‘make’ it work, however they can.
When children are involved, the motivation to successfully maintain the long distance relationship is very strong.
Individuals who are just beginning to know each other from a distance, and choose to develop and maintain a committed relationship, have challenges to overcome that may or may not become insurmountable.
It takes a very disciplined person to grow and maintain a long distance relationship.
Someone who knows him/herself extremely well, and is able to discern important traits in the other individual has a better chance of success.
An individual who has already experienced a couple relationship and understands what is involved in satisfying each other’s needs, as well as how to communicate effectively, is better equipped to attempt to develop a partnership from a distance.
Patience is a key personality trait required, as well as a determination to find viable solutions to obstacles.
In order for it to succeed, the relationship must be developed ‘in person’ at some point. Only the two individuals involved can determine when that time will be.
The sooner they meet, at least once in the beginning stage, to assess each other in order to decide whether or not they wish to develop the relationship, the better.
When the decision is made, then the timing of everything else is up to what the two can live with.
Whether they decide to meet every three months, once a month, or even once a year, if they communicate regularly in between these times and both are committed to keeping their relationship alive, it is possible.
At some point; however, one or both people might decide it is time to move closer to one another, if not live in the same place together.
Living together, on a daily basis, is very different from consistent but infrequent time spent together.
Some individuals, after attempting to live together, might determine that living apart, yet still committed to one another, might be preferable for them, and continue their relationship with regularly scheduled visits.
When children will never be an issue in the relationship, it will be easier for the couple to live apart and together at different times throughout the year, if this is what they are both comfortable doing.
Even couples who live together may choose to have separate bedrooms and bathrooms; their own ‘space’ within the same dwelling.
Independent people who have their own routines, interests and space can successfully live together provided they are not only committed to, respect and accept one another, but also if they both agree that this is the best option for them as a couple.
As time passes and people age, other issues become involved which will need to be addressed by the partners as well.
One of the key elements to a successful ‘long distance’, and ‘same place’ relationship, is for both individuals to be ‘on the same page’, as far as addressing their individual and couple needs.
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